Win-win -law of the Road

According to statistics in the modern Chinese family , half -law marriage because the relationship broke down , came to an end . Therefore, to how to resolve the conflict between mother-and daughter , -law to establish a harmonious relationship is going to face a major problem.
 A lot of mother and daughter have a lot of resentment of each other , a lot of complaints . Is not the mother or daughter really wrong with that? In fact, the person who has strong points, if in a more positive and healthy attitude to appreciate each other's advantages or strengths may be more between -law know how to cherish each other . Chinese are more subtle , less praise from others , the closer someone is always a kind of " hard to open mouth in their heart "phenomenon . If the between -law can have more praise , thanksgiving with each other and less criticism, less rancor , that between mother-and daughter have a better interaction . There is a saying: "Children 's shortcomings do not say incredible ; child's strengths and ultimately, do not say . " Many parents often find defects in their children, the expense of merit . Similarly, the mother rarely went to the advantages of a wife , daughter and rarely saw her mother 's strength . We should understand that children need to be praised , the couples also need to , yes, mother is also required from the wife of praise and encouragement. Therefore , as a wife , do not mean to praise her mother was sincere praise of the mother will feel good, will naturally be more on the wife of a tolerant patient . In contrast, daughter also needs her mother does not mean praise , praise each other in good faith make a better between -law interaction .
 -Law to exist between the gratitude of the heart . As a mother , and to understand : the arrival of his wife not to compete with his son . Instead of you would like to thank his wife , because her son to end his single life vagrant . Daughter-in- door not only to take care of his son , but also for the family have children , she not only loved her son who is also the grandson 's mother , is to help take care of the family . Do not fight wife control of the family , because his wife was to accompany his son to take care of later life . Mothers want their children happy , if the mother and daughter fall apart every day , that his son will be very upset . Mother to be on the good wife is the good son , son, mother against daughter also because of the love and even more grateful . This is the mother of the wife to the reasons for gratitude . We say be prosper . If his son before the mother often praised his wife , this good word reached the ears of his wife , will make his wife more respect for one-third of the mother . As the saying goes : "You respect me an inch , I respect your foot . " Under such circumstances, even if there is any contradiction between the misunderstandings -law , but also easy communication and understanding , will not have generated much of the conflict .
 As a wife and mother should also have a thankful heart . As a wife , and to understand : every day from morning till evening with your husband , is the mother to pay his own best time of life care into the men put up with hardships in his youth was something , the mother handed him over to himself. Therefore, the wife should treat her mother 's as a benefactor to her, cherish her, as enemies do not look at her . If the mother is willing to share the housework or taking care of grandchildren , when , and do not think it is only natural . Not to her mother as a servant , to really grateful to her , and often praised her bright and capable , we should also thank her a lot to pay for their own physical effort . She got you thanked her for granted. If both mother and daughter from the heart of gratitude is often done to each other , encourage each other , then -law making it more intimate relationship .
 A good mother , to understand the merits of Aspects of Intellectual wife praised and affirmed . Huang 've been fortunate to encounter a good mother . She was the little girl , a lot of family will not do . When she married after her husband's family , cooking home from work one day , she had mistakenly put vinegar as soy sauce , a dish to Haohao De mess with . The occasion of intense shame when she and her mother was able to understand her , came to comfort her and encourage her to take her more easily. Her mother would accommodate her shortcomings , and Related Aspects of Intellectual advantages to enjoy her . Her mother told her , "Even if you are not does not matter what they are able to learn. But the most important thing is willing to help you have a heart and makes me very satisfied . " because the mother Not captious , singled her to appreciate the advantages , and therefore the relationship between them and the music is . A wise and rational as mother , wife , how will not get the respect and love it ! Huang on the love of her mother , they get along very well.
 -Law relationship to long-term peace , we must learn to express their mutual appreciation for each other and appreciate each other's strengths God has given . When the mother-and daughter when the two sides praised each other , love will increase with the increase . We Chinese people affected by the cultural background , are more difficult to praise others, so to learn to break through , to develop the habit of more than praise . It will find praise for increasing or , more harmonious relationship between Mother upgrade .