Child's needs

We often educated their children , parents and children, and children to speak to communicate are at a loss . Not just in your child is just born you will feel at a loss , sometimes kids go to school, into adolescence , parents still feel helpless. The parents , if we know that the children need, it easier to handle.

Children need What do ? It is said that every child needs to be accepted, be praise and enjoy. They need to learn to trust their parents will not cheat them, or do not honor their commitments , they need consistent, and very fair treatment. They need to feel that their fears , desires , feelings, sense of impulse or frustration , helplessness, can the parents understand. They actually need to know a safe range , what is to allow them to do ? What is prohibited not let them do it? They need to know a home is a safe place , a refuge the home inside without fear. When their performance is good, they need warm praise. They make mistakes , you need a firm correction. They need to know their parents than they are stronger , parents to protect them through of foreign the storm and the danger . Can meet their temper and vexatious, they need to feel parents like their , are willing to take the time to listen to them. They need parents know their more and more want to independence the kind of feelings and needs .

Friends, you feel your child in these areas needs is not got to meet it? Of course not at once all can be done , but it can slowly be done . Because their parents are learning , there is a learning phase. But if we can understand their children have these needs , we are willing to understand the children, and willing with them to communicate , then we can and child have better and better relationship. All this we can look up , relying on the Lord give us wisdom , give us love, let us know Zenmeyangzuo , know how to treat our children. in the Proverbs the book Chapter 3 5-6 section of , said: " with all your heart Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding , in all your deeds , and have found him, he will direct your paths . "In raising my child, The things this way too.

That morning, the sun was shining

Female : That day , no rainbow is not rainy night , you are riding a bicycle to the village town , from the town post office to give me a call. I still remember it was a sunny morning.



M: It was a sunny morning. I picked up the phone, in rural road noise , the dial your number. From horizon to horizon, the line can pass it?



Woman: Yes, from horizon to horizon, the line can be accessible . You dial my number , did not hesitate no doubts.



M : There is no hesitation and no doubt, I gently say to you: I love you.



F: Do you firmly told me that you love me. Have been looking forward to , they fear the coming time , has been looking forward to but worry about can not afford to the moment .



M: on Do people who meet you meet the people , in thousands of years , at the time of non- marginal cliff , meet you meet the people , neither earlier nor later step.



Female : neither earlier nor later step.



M: met and no other words , just gently say : You know , I love you.



Female : You know , I cried .



M: I know you cry. across the Thousands of miles Thousands of miles mountains across the for millions of years billions of years galaxy , I see your beautiful eyes, that which poured out little tears and tears behind the slender mind.



Female : You looking at me?



M: Yes, I'm looking at you . I see your eyes Inside the stars , you mottled loneliness and bitterness, all the sadness and vulnerability , all the lonely and joy , that once lit the dark past.



F: Do you actually willing to put his shoulder it?



M: Yes, I would.



Woman: No matter there is no rain , not a little bit lost and confused ?



M: No matter there is no rain , not a little bit lost and confused.



Women : there is no any doubt that ?



M: Yes , no doubt.



Female : Remember writer Thomas Hardy said What , calling for and being call very little able to each other response.



M: The " Song of Solomon , " said : My darling, my beautiful one , up with me ! The winter is past , the rain is gone. on the ground The flowers , birds call and the time has come, doves the voice of in our land heard , fig tree fruit gradually mature , grape blossom smell. My darling, my beautiful one , up with me !



Female : But, the cold chilly, or there are unexpected wind and rain and unexpected setbacks.



M : Then let us hand in hand walk , the one who feed the sparrows who take care of you and me.



Female : But , maybe hand until you know I am not a darling, is not beauty.



M: No, you look beautiful, your voice soft. people are not Because of the beautiful only cute, but due to lovely and beautiful.



Girl : Do you remember that the evening the slopes what, twilight you say a lot of . So firm and magnetic words, so pure and passionate commitment , love for God , and that the Australian the film Girl in Red story of . I know I'm not good enough for you.



M: Remember that beautiful morning , did you bring excitement and gratitude to the fellowship , the enthusiasm of simple, hard-working himself, and already some inspiration and understanding . This is a divine giving, I then why should deserve you pay ?



Woman: There I was injured and had to the past, all the lonely, frightened and bitter , life robe surface of had to weave desolate the drawing .



M: The robe face behind the is full of of the Lord aspect and orderly blessings . your past I have not had time to participation , you the future I would like to participate fully in .



Girl : Why do you love me?



M: Love your beautiful and simple , and gave himself with faith, love your to the sacred dedication and of others the care ... ... No, this was not , it is because of God the cooperation and blessing , the eternal heart and obedience . That love Than I , have to accept and obey .



F: Do you believe all this it?



M: Yes. Not to satisfy selfish enjoyment, not to end the individual's loneliness , but God, you entrusted to me , to with us for him live to make you more wide , in order to make our more love life , to expand with each other the soul the vision of .



Woman: I almost dare not say that ... ...



M: What?



Woman: Is this love is a duty, a good proof of the ability ? Is it just a pity , good comfort a heart ?



M : Of course not! You are the only princess , I s heart.



Female : You know , that moment I almost stopped to think, not quite believe it is true, I then respect you , and then long to be with you forever. You are so stupid , so firm.



M: so stupid , so strong ! You are my beautiful princess.



Girl : Because of Love it?



M: Because of the beautiful and love, and love to make you more beautiful. Far Columba 's whistle , this one mountain , fields and vineyards , the bright sunshine and clarity of the sky, open flowers, is so vast, magical and divine.



Woman: love itself is a beautiful from the eternal flow of note the heart, from the sky the dumping here.



M: with my the joy of exchange you the joy , it becomes a double joy.



Female : with my sorrow exchange for your grief , is reduced by half sadness .



M: with my heart exchange to your heart , it becomes a heart.



Woman: with My night the exchange of your night is dawn . Love is such a to share joy is an flow of endless songs , is a overflowing Tiaodang river .



M : No feeling and passion meet .



Female : It Forever combination.



Male : not because just the day sunny.



Female : not because of that moment just there Blossom .



M: Dear ... ...



Girl : What ?



M: I in the sunshine said I love you.



Woman: ever What ?



M: Yes.



Female : That morning the sun so bright, so sweet , cured of all my injuries in the past.



M: That morning the sun so clear, so mellow , eradicated I have all the nothingness.



Female : from a distant village , did not think you will have the courage to say , to say long hidden in my heart the words .



M : In a Yugoslavia small town in , did not think you it have the courage to accept , accept the divine gift .



Woman: I know it is God's blessing.



M : So firm and frank , without having to repeat second time and gently a .



Female : So frank and firm and do not have to repeat second time in gently a .



M: at 10:45 on August 12, 1998 .



Female : that moment frozen in eternal memories .



M: Love the original has been in love , but that moment lightly to say . Not forced , and no reluctance.



Women : did not force was compelled , love the already love. But that moment just to say .



M: Love is not each other on the TV, but a common face .



Woman: So all the stories there is only one knot, all the results is only one in August , all the fruit is only one root , all said and not said , are endless flow of the .



M: everything to God be the harmony.



Female : That day , no rainbow is not rainy night , you have not been muddy swamp .



M: That day no rainbow is not rainy night , I have not been muddy swamp . I was riding a bicycle to the town post office, on the highway tractors the roar of in give you a call. It was a sunny morning.



All: That morning, the sun was bright. I ( you) pick up the phone and dialed you (I ) the number, gently tell you ( me) said: I ( you) love you (I ).



Men (singing ): the winter is past , the rain has ended , the flowers open, a hundred birds sing. Why wait , why hesitate ? My darling, with me . Please let me see your face, please let me hear you whisper . You sound soft, you looks beautiful. My dove, with me .



Women (singing) : My beloved , I follow you, leave the steep rock , secret place. birds The sound of , hundreds of flowers, with your footsteps , and goes with you.



Together (singing) : Jesus, Lord , I love the return, my body my soul , never belong to you. valley Among , thinking you eager to go with you , now and spring back.

Do not believers when " fans "Do not look for the priest , " name Mu "

Recently, some of the more active the online blog , series of Bowen spoke of seeing a few " name Mu "and" fan " of the topic . This also would like to take you pastors and faithful of the opinion , together with brothers and sisters, priests and believers of the boat thinking the water relations , common in the Lord Jesus Christ keep vigilant .

A believer in the blog wrote : "Some followers of the lamb is no longer the Lord , but were fans of the livestock ; pastor is no longer a servant of God , but everyone 's idol ; sermon is no longer Is serving , and but a debut ; prayer is no longer pledge allegiance to the Lord , but in front of people show up ; preach the gospel to save souls is no longer , but a get rich ; " between statements disclose the exact concerns Worth considering.

Before becoming a pastor is Pastor ordinary people , a pastor , he is ordinary . Only a priest who bear the sacred mission , God gives pastors to preach the truth of the authority and duties of shepherding the flock . Undeniably , however , because of the impact of secularization , such as " fans "and many of the concepts and habits invasion of the sanctity of the church . After he received the grace and blessing , many people are not the same as over the body like four living creatures, both inside and outside eyes on God , glory to God, but could not wait to followers of Pastor 's footsteps, thanks to the pastors and tell .

Shepherd God 's people for the love of his flock set up monitoring , is the channel between God and man , the channel is empty , open, and believers can feel completely full of God 's grace . Bo is a master set sail with hundreds of pastors, speaking on his blog : In fact, I hardly " name , animal husbandry , " So far , I have not served as chairman of any organization , directors, and has never held any Name of magazine editors , has never been a subject of any large gathering of speakers , but not too much shepherding the church , I shepherd the church only two or three hundred people, I am the only preacher to the main row of chairs placed on the table early Audio equipment , washing clothes at home cooking, sweeping , at best be regarded as one goes to the donkey colt .

This may be the pastor and some attitude . If it were not the grace of God , why would they be able to stand before the altar preaching the Word of God to explain the mystery of heaven ? Without the guidance of the Holy Spirit , we will not through the words of the population moved from the heart , get spiritual satisfaction and joy . Before God to offer the best acts of God, but it seems dirty clothes. If it were not God's mercy , those of us owe a debt of love how could people offer a living sacrifice, and a channel of blessing ?

Set sail , said: " In the church of Christ , there is no ' great '( the so-called great , is based on human standards ), the God of those pre -selected unknown. In other words , God willing to expose all this rebellious world Vanity . Wong Lo 4 to know their climb out from the mountain valley of sinners , if God 's mercy , is not a dead dog ? "

Jesus also has many followers , even his own prayer and rest even have a rare quiet time . But Jesus said, " My Father doing until now , I do things . " Father of the world with compassion , to seek the Lord to heal him who never refused , even his disciples to the end of its refusal of foreign buyers also Pakistani Call him, and personally heal him. Jesus to the Father of things in mind , we have the heart to heart with Jesus Christ .

However , the minister also ordinary people , priests and pastors of the weakness and difficulties . Perhaps , compared to our gratitude toward the pastor , priests are more in need of our prayers and support. Strong in the face of Jesus to Peter , the Lord knew his weakness, the Lord said : "But I have prayed for you , call your faith fail not . you have turned again , strengthen your brothers . " (Luke 22:32 ) compassionate The main weakness of people , is the pastor had the most solid support and strength ; for us on the battlefield in the war against spiritual pastors , brothers and sisters need to like Aaron and Hur -like long-lasting support .

Then turn back , believers also need introspection itself is invisible in the shaping " name animal husbandry "and behind it some ? The world of " names , animal husbandry , " it? Must have a " fan " more, and will have a " name of animal husbandry . " In the eyes of believers " were grazing " , will also be misunderstood ?

Set sail once described himself as a " fan " experience. For participating in " name , animal husbandry , " Speaker of the winter will be late , he was treated with the pastor does not like working with people walking in the grounds of his sermon turned away , at noon break, set sail with the priest face to face confrontation , but " were grazing " enthusiastically pulling him to sit down , he praised the courage to dare to speak the truth , and finally told him not " allowed to enter late "rule. Perhaps the name of the original purpose of animal husbandry is also hearing people to concentrate on knowing .

Ecclesiastes said , " you go to the house of God should be careful steps , Go near to listen rather than foolish sacrifice . " believers in the Bible and preaching, the holiness of God , justice, love , is eternal truth , etc. , Not just short- hot with passion . Blind believers , perhaps because of the shallow understanding of Bible truth or do not desire , may only pursue from faith to meet the emotional needs , perhaps too much stock in the eyes can see behind the work is difficult to rely on God ... ... in the final analysis , all of the Due to deviation from the truth faith .

Healthy growth of believers , the Word of God and the Church 's teachings on the situation and the importance attached to such closely related. Paul said, "so that your faith should not wisdom , but on God 's power. " rightly dividing the word of the Bible , believers receive from God the grace to see God as , glory to God , Pastor Naturally become good stewards of the manifold grace of God . If not, the name of God but because of those who promote the desecration of his name , the Gospel is also blind in those who are perishing .

Set sail in Bowen at the end of call : Do not we as " name , animal husbandry , " and do not lock themselves as " fans " , whether it is the congregation or the pastor , we are a chosen people, a disciple of Jesus Christ , do not be The two against each other , so that in an evil trick .

Personal credit card

Each person is born, have a credit card , it 's called the " personality " , this card can be secured for you a lot of things , such as advance many commitments it! And if your integrity, promises , it will be your contact person to person among countless easy to bring ; but if you accidentally put it to the " maxed out " they can not " repay ", then you Will lose all of your trust .

There is a story is to describe the level of a publishing director of John , a very honest person , and his style very sophisticated, but is often lost in the verbal sense of proportion . On the book when asked to get listed , John was nice to answer , they essentially said : "Soon, soon, soon, has been printed , can be listed next week . "But in fact, it is not even the layout is not done End and colleagues about his dinner , he always readily agreed , but for different reasons each time late , missed appointments ; teach a child, he always said: " If you can ...... it was my father ......" But in the end they take you to always let the matter rest .

Finally, he lost all confidence in the book of business and lost and some old colleagues had the revolutionary spirit, also lost a child to his discourse on the convincing , even to the children and hence what was to become a habit Of lip people.

The story above points out the importance of credit to a person , you are a trustworthy person?
Here are four ways your can make you do not lose the trust of people :

l Before opening , think about
First stop and think about it , to your current strength, and your statement of the progress of events , really sure you tell the meaning of the words necessary to achieve it?

l Before opening , slow a slow
Unless you really well-thought , or less " certain "," absolute " , "I guarantee " ... ... these words Jen assured style .

l After the opening , a trim
Just say if it has been filled ? If so, quickly amended the first time , or with but . If you stay until after the incident, " supplement " , is suspected of a belated , it was too too late !

l after closed or moved
A person who promised one thing , but do not delay or procrastination, then no three times, your words of authority and credibility will be compromised of .

Personality , like a credit card , you can advance your promise as a guarantee , this credit card , you are " maxed out " it? Whether your personality or is moving towards the predicament of bankruptcy , but you are unaware I did not notice it ?

Maybe you are careless , but do not overlook the " dishonesty "on the image of your personality lethal, it is enough to make your words treat others the future is nothing .

Marriage is a covenant

Contemporary society does not have time to hold such an attitude , it comes to lay down their lives. But it is even more important to Christians , they want in their marriage faithfully represent Christ and his church relationship. Many times in our lives than we have witnessed verbal language more effective. As the Old Testament prophets , we can not only words , you can send with predicted behavior .

Before talking about the role of the husband , I must first establish a foundation , so , I have to talk about marriage, because only through marriage , men who could be her husband .

There are three important human beings , the eternal nature of the relationship:

1 . The relationship between believers and God
2 . The relationship between husband and wife
3 . The relationship between believers

Children as the fruit of marriage between men and women also included within this agreement , this is about their parents set before God 's .

Each of these three relations is a basis of a relationship is about , about the Bible, described the most serious and committed the most binding form . No one about , the principles can not by covenant to establish long-term relationship.

There are two main Bible verses prove that marriage is a about . First we look at Proverbs 2 16-17 :

" It will save you from the adulteress , is that flatters with her words . who has left the partner of her youth , forget the Covenant of God . "

This verse that the woman is unfaithful to her husband, forget or destroy her and the man set the marriage before God . Shows that marriage is a set of men and women before God one about .

In addition, the book of Malachi , God said about the nature of marriage . Israel has complained: "We are always in prayer , we are always in the house of God why you do not respond to our prayers ? " Malachi 2 14 is God's answer:

"You said that this is why . because the Lord in you and the wife of your youth, the middle of a witness. Although she is your spouse , your covenant wife is , you have dealt treacherously with her . "

Speaking of God in these verses for her husband to " false " to be their wives - to use modern language , that they deceive their wives. God said: "The number of times you pray or you spend time in the church is not important . If you are unfaithful to your wife of the Covenant , I would not listen to your prayers . " God declared that such people are breach of contract People.

Therefore , regardless of sex , marital infidelity is a ruined about . This is why the sin of adultery is more serious than adultery . Fornication two unmarried relationship with someone who is immoral , is itself the crime , but this is not about destroying one . The destruction of a rape is about the immoral behavior , which is why it is more seriousWeight of a sin.

　Mystery about

One is about the mysteries of God . Unless the use of revelation, no one can really understand. Only God can make us understand what is about to take the Bible . The poet said:

" Lord and fear him close . he will own about instructing them . " Psalm 25 14

So , about a mystery of God , he only to those who fear him inspiration . The fear of God are those who can understand some of the people entering .

22-31 in Ephesians 5 , Paul said, and his wife, the marriage relationship between Christ and his Church of the relationship between pre- form or expression . Then he added : "This is a great mystery " (No. 23 ) . We need to understand Paul in this passage in the Bible the word used in the special meaning of the mystery .

That era were popular so-called " mystery religions . " The religion has a special secret , the mystery only to those who passed the rigorous checking procedures for people to know . Unless you formally join , otherwise you can not know their secret . Therefore, when Paul describes marriage is a mystery , he means that , unless we first experience a reasonable admission procedures , otherwise we will not understand its true nature . This procedure is to use the wedding , a couple entered with God , and each other about the relationship. Only when they are willing to make such a committed , they can begin to discover the true nature of marriage . Who do not want to meet the conditions of both men and women , they can experience the law of marriage and physical aspects , but its true nature is still closed to them , it is still a mystery - a mystery.

We should remember that marriage is not just one level of a social contract , at first , marriage is primarily a biblical concept . To enter into this mystery of marriage , we must first understand the Bible "about " the meaning of the word . So, simply examine what about the principle of the Bible would be helpful .

　　About the principles of

We turn from the Psalms , Hebrews , and seen in Genesis about God 's revelation .

Following this revelation from scripture Psalms preoccupied with what kind of people contracting :

" His call to the heavens , in order to judge his people , saying, gather my saints come to me , that is, those with the sacrifice with me about the people. " Psalm 50 4-5

Who is God's holy people? Bible said that his contract with the sacrifices of the people . Approximately must be based on each sacrifice .

In Hebrew , you actually say about cutting , not contract . " cut " the word implies a sharp knife and bloodshed. It further reminds us about is the need for sacrifice , and sacrifice requires blood - life 's discarded .

16-17 in Hebrews , the writer says about or testament only when people die before they take effect . But the " testament " in the original Greek word is "about " the word . These two verses point out some of the other important facts:

" Where testament , testament to wait until someone dies leaving . ( testament is the same text with some words ) as dead , in force only if the testament of the still remaining , that testament is also useful You ? "

So , when you contract , you are actually signing your own death certificate , this is a serious matter , is committed to the end of .

Look at some of the real life of Abraham Chi . Lord and Abraham have a very good personal relationship . One night , the Lord instructed Abraham , he would give him the land of Canaan for industry . Abraham said to him : "How can I know it must for the industry? " (Genesis 15 8) God to cut him about the response to Abraham .

This shows that God is everything is about the end of the committed . When God set a about , he would not be necessary to further what other expressed .

About the cut this time , God commanded Abraham to do something at that time in the Middle East on behalf of the habit of making things : kill a number of offering , and then split each sample divided into two halves , one half in front half to locate , and then contracting parties in the middle Passed . The Bible does not say when Abraham 's sacrifice in the middle come open , but it describes how to do the Lord :

"Sunset and darkness had a smoking furnace and burning of the torch from the pieces in the crossing. " Genesis 15 17

God in the burning of the torch in through the offering of the pieces . Hebrews 29 reminds us that : "Our God is a consuming fire . "

After offering the pieces, what does that mean? It means that when you walk through the offering, and witness the dead body, you said: "That death is my death . From now on, I tell myself is dead, but as I entered about a man with live . " Abraham gave up his life , and in covenant with God to live . But remember , God gave Abraham the same thing .

About any of the parties can take each other for all that . For this contract, then the Lord said to Abraham, in fact true : "I want your son , Joseph , your only son , the son of who you are faithful to his instructions to you in my place for my For the Festival . " (see Genesis 22 2).

Abraham is a covenant people. He did not argue , do not delay . He responded: " Well, God , I am here, I will go to that place , I would offer that sacrifice . " So the next morning that he would move off the designated areas .

Precisely at the last moment , when Abraham was hands the knife to insert the body of his son , the Lord said to him : "Well, Abraham , you do not do this . If you do not leave your son to not only To me, now I know you fear me. " That is about !

But the story did not ended up . After almost two years , the Lord said : " Abraham and his descendants need a sacrifice, only one person can be a sacrifice that is my son. Abraham to offer his son to me , now I want to offer him my Son. " It was Morrison Hill set about some of the other half . God the Father , where access to success is about the commitment, he put his son , Jesus Christ for the sins on the offer , as a last resort , all prepared by the festival .

With this understanding , history is God and his people about the set of all real- Chi . We can not stress about the importance and seriousness are not excessive .

Now we come to this point about the use of marriage . When a time when the Christian men and women get married , they join in the sacrifice of Jesus on the Cross , both Xiang Paul said in Galatians 2 20 : "I have been crucified with Jesus , now is no longer alive I, but Christ lives in me . "

Once they committed to do so after each other , each turned to face the cross . Husband said : "When I read that sacrifice , I died. I lay down his life , now I have my wife which live out my life, she is my life 's performance. " wives say the same thing : "When I read that offering, I'm dead . Since I no longer live for themselves but for the covenant, and who I live . " for each other to lay down their lives. That is the basis of Christian marriage , that marriage can only basis for true success .

However , such an attitude with the attitude of many people today just the opposite . That is why so many piles of dissolution of marriage 's sake . Today too many people entering a marriage, I thought : What are the benefits I get from here ? It will not work. Bible 's attitude is : I was given what ? It worked !

The purpose of marriage

Adam did not think the matter of marriage , he even did not know he needed a wife. The idea of marriage comes from God , all of our Organization and its ultimate intentions are set down by the gods .

God 's purpose for marriage is the unity between spouses . But the Bible is very clear that the real unity of mankind is only one basis , whether male or female , it is about , the Bible describes marriage , said this :

" Therefore shall a man leave his father and his wife, and two become one flesh . " Genesis 2 24

Marriage , the key is two words : leave the joint . If you do not leave , you can not joint . If you do not want the background taken concurrently in charge of your parents and make a new start , you never reach your spouse truly joint .

In some cultures , marriage is usually not successful because the culture teaches man and his parents should be joint , not with his wife jointly . That he stop his wife sincerely heartfelt .

We need to recognize that marriage as depicted in the Bible is not a social custom or culture. Many different social customs into the wedding , or how to decide how to celebrate the wedding . For example, in Israel , the Jews celebrate the wedding to comply with a set of social practices , to comply with another set of Arabs , Amelia who has to comply with their set , which is reasonable . However, the basic essence of marriage is the beginning of human history, God decided to down : a man leaves his parents , went with his wife jointly . It was a man and a woman to reach the only basis for true unity .

There is also a misunderstanding of marriage is very common today . Many behaviors are shown as if marriage is a test . It was a mistake. Marriage is a commitment, not a trial , said trial marriage , as a " trial committed " itself is self-contradictory. Only through mutual commitment, God can release the joint between a pair of men and women need the grace of life .

　　Predict the nature of marriage

God of the Bible there is a gratifying fact that he likes his own revelation to humanity . God's self- revelation of God gave to us under one of the most valuable treasures . This revelation is the arrival of the main channel of the Bible , but the greater privilege is when God not only chose to enlighten us and himself alone , he also help us by himself.

Old Testament prophets of God so often with his own revelation . In order to warn approaching the captivity of Judah nation , God commanded Jeremiah to a yoke on his neck (see Jeremiah 27 2). In order to describe the army of Jerusalem is about to be captive to Babylon , God commanded Ezekiel to dig through a wall , acted like a person to escape from the besieged city of the same (see Ezekiel 12 4-5 ) . Antonio God for forgiveness of the great love of Israel , he commanded Hosea to marry with a prostitute (see Hosea 1 2). We can list many similar examples.

Therefore , we see that prophecy is not only speak a message , you can also come out with acts of presentation . It would appear that Christian marriage accompanied by a wonderful prophecy of the characteristics of marriage .

First of all , a personal relationship between men and women shows that a relationship can produce only about a joint .

But the true Christian marriage, to convey the second , and better information. 25 in Ephesians 5 , Paul said: " Husbands , love your wives , just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up . " Christians have the privilege of a husband to his wife that the Church of Christ that his self-sacrificing love.

On the other hand , 24 in Ephesians 5 , Paul said: "The church submits to Christ , so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything . " A Christian wife in the relationship with her husband also have the corresponding privileges , that the Church of Christ - the respect due to her love of the Lord .

Modern society does not have time to accommodate this attitude , it comes to lay down their lives. But it is even more important to Christians , they want in their marriage faithfully represent Christ and his church relationship. Many times in our lives than we have witnessed verbal language more effective. As the Old Testament prophets , we can not only words , you can send with predicted behavior .

Love you give attitude of the child

Ranks the fourth , when I was pregnant , had a maternal age , my husband is also half a century , we are really surprised and delighted by this ! for a long time at home without small children , and that hard work and rearing children sweet , I am Can understand , because I had had three children , boss second child interval of a half years old , her second child and youngest interval of five years, while fourth eldest born, and the youngest a 10 -year-old as much difference . My oldest 2 years old when they quit teaching , his care for the children . My husband and I like around half of children are also enjoying family life, our children have many fond memories of childhood , they like to go home .

In middle age , But Cautious




Even so, some worry we do not know whether it can also be capable of physical ? BABY think we have three older brothers and sisters can help them to have a little BABY will be joined as a member of the family is hoping for another Excited .

In this way, children look forward to the next in our joy was born . Thank God , she is healthy , is the most important of the children born at home , nearly 4,000 grams , as we expected, she was energetic , a great cry , laugh too much , she is fascinated by every move , she is Our pistachios . We take turns taking care of her family , coax her to sleep with her play . Church family on Sundays , but also a bunch of aunts and uncles like BABY hold her, tease her . The child is in so much love , care , attention to grow .

Pistachios into small rebellion


Year-old exploration of the beginning, this small pistachio gradually let the family stunned , laughing . The first laugh is that I - my mother . I often feel exhausted and can not seem to cope her needs.

Every morning she woke up and found other people have gone ( dad brother and sister have gone to work or school ), she would cry, she wanted to go out . I took him to the park , she must return home to play 2-3 hours , not ring true to her heart , she cried . Home I was tired, she was not tired , walk around at home , climbed up and down , fall and get bruises are common. She 's dynamic , do not nap , and Dad can play at night to 10 o'clock .

She was crying , because a significant issue , hungry, crying , tired, crying , tired of crying , wounded cry , discomfort cry , did not agree to her request to cry - . When angry cry , that cry can be really scary , make you think that her accident happened . She cried not once , but got out of hand , half an hour , an hour or even longer. The day, I found that I have to face such a situation several times. She cries slowly become my stress , I am frustrated , I feel like I can not meet her needs .

With the development of language , she became much of a talker , and very will to bargain , the parents challenge authority . She frequently said was : "Why? "" Why do I have to listen to you ? I have to decide ! " I told her to eat candy after dinner , she would accidentally tear a little , told me : "But I am torn right now! "I insisted on closing her up , she and I said : "I like to eat one , leaving it up . " I said: "No ! " she would candy deepened their fling , Burst into tears , or to speak to her saying: 『 Why do I have to listen to you ? I have to do decide ! 』 heart Anjiao I have heard not good , what individual children! actually year-old should Their own decisions !

I was most difficult to understand is that she 's different tune behavior . You told her East , she had just west ; you told her not to , she just wishes . One time we play in the park , her tongue lick the horizontal bar ; I said: "Do not lick , this is not to eat . " Her response was - the more powerful the more licking . I am really good and gas , but also funny , can quickly put her away . An endless stream of small events like this , I think her like a long anti- bone , completely incomprehensible .

Picked up the rod of discipline , parental authority renewal


I never get so frustrated when her mother when ! I know can not leave alone , or wait for him to go to school , my teacher would pick the phone up every day . But I also do not want to act rashly , without handle , injury to a child 's self-esteem , I owe will be greater . I am reminded of Proverbs said: fool bound child's heart, the rod of discipline can fool well rid of ( Qian 22:15 ) . The child is the discipline, but how to enforce it?

Then I heard the Von sister 『 』 how to love your children 's CD, mentioned above, love is the basis of discipline , love enough , discipline to be effective. I believe that we give children enough love , so I follow the practice of Feng sister ; pick a suitable thin bamboo , put it in a conspicuous place at home , I tell my kids , this is our family laws , can help Children to become good boy . All good things her mother told her she did not comply , I will turn this family laws to help her. I said : I will beat you ass three times , to help you keep in mind .

But this too many children in need of discipline , and I want where to begin? the church teaches is the most important character , I would like to respect other people from the start! So I first asked her to be quiet when the whole family together - - painting , playing with toys , can leave the seat , but no matter what must be calm , and not to noisy .

The first opportunity to practice domestic discipline soon came, on the whole family gathering , I met with her a note , make sure she had understood it. But the party has started long before she started pulling tables and chairs , manufactured sound, loud , as if she did not know it - I gave her the opportunity to remind the second to the third , I took her to the room , users Method to force hit her three times ass . She gave a sharp cry , I cry a smaller waiting for her , holding her, telling her family laws to help her become a good boy , so she knew how to respect others.

Out the door , meeting also the end , but she also learned to quiet - the need for respect for our gathering . I remember that from the beginning to use domestic discipline , she really played only twice , next , I just put on a high domestic discipline ( the reach of children ), the obvious place , they received a good warning effect . Later found that she began to test the parent 's bottom line, I need only mention two words 』 『 domestic discipline , she started screaming : " I do not want domestic discipline ! I do not want spanking ! "Her behavior really bound up .

Set an example to their child sorry


However, this does not mean smooth sailing discipline . I gradually came to realize one thing , I must accept God gave me the baby is a very assertive , temperamental child . Obedience on the other children some of life is easy routine , not easy for her . Therefore, eat, sleep , clean up , organize - these daily chores , I try to relax the restrictions, according to her pace and let her make a decision, this mother and daughter together so that we can live in harmony .

Once she has tantrums , and I upset gas ankle , said she was not loud . Did not think she began to cry, that I bad temper , to apologize to her . My heart feel good and gas , but also funny , really outrageous , obviously she was not unreasonable , but also I apologize to her . But I suddenly remembered I was not asked her tantrums on weekdays , after apologizing to people ? I respond to her with a blood gas bad temper , really not a good example. I apologize to her as a role model to begin with it!

So I seriously told her : "little music I'm sorry , I just bad temper , talking very loudly , scared you, you can forgive me? " did not think the child back to me an apology too seriously : "Mom I'm sorry , I Just a bad temper , scared you, you can forgive me? " apology is completed, I picked up this eloquent little guy , came up with a new insight - the original Example is better than precept is so true - this year-old child I normally use to teach her to watch our words and actions of these adults , and she knows what is right and what is wrong , just can not do it . I am a parent , if we can not set a good example , but also how discipline her?

Better than a bad temper


I also asked her: " When your temper , I hope Mom and Dad how to treat you? "she replied : "To say softly slowly ah ! "( this is my usual teaching , really shameful !) was She and I agreed that we should match soft - people angry , I am not angry , I can gentle toward others , I won the ( strength of her personality well , like most win !) .

Later often raise my voice one , there came a sharp voice : "Mummy, are you angry , I am very gentle, I win , you lose . "After this reminder , I own anger More alert , and that children are slowly learning to control anger .

Once she and her friend Wei Yu nursery know quarrel , complain that her bad temper, Wei Yu , and I can gently remind her . She said: " Why is she a bad temper , I have to tender ? "I said: "The more powerful because of the gentle ah ! You see, many people will throw a tantrum , but to be better than his temper , to tender , it should Very powerful , than the martial arts who was even more severe才行. " (I explained to her home , Proverbs 16:32 is not easily angry , and beat the Warriors , had to overcome the heart , than the walls capture people. God That the more severe temper Oh !)

While no amount of teaching , this year , small children or inevitably a temper , I think emotions will be her life 's lessons . I want to help her early knowledge of God , let her know how great will depend on the Holy Spirit , better than a bad temper .

Love never fails


Now every morning to go to school , we almost always play the same opera. 7:00 sharp, her to the bed Jiaoren up , she did not respond . Mom began to scratch her itch , scratch where miles , where the read : " belly Qichuang La , "" Face Qichuang La Face , "" feet foot Qichuang La . " to see a smile on her face , ticklish to reduce them Mom began to cry: " Little Music Qichuang La . "

And then dressed . She lay in bed , eyes closed , lifted his foot , I put on her pants . She generally does not feel right , they shouted : " uncomfortable , uncomfortable - . " side of hard kicks, kicked in the pants ; time mom -get -for- one , pull her up , or he began to toot your mouth sour .

Then she will be shameless to say : " hold me, hold me! " and then the same grip as the koala mother , only to cling to her mother . Then she would say : " pat , pat ! "Mom was making her hand back , like a child , like coax BABY . " Kiss , kiss ! " kiss the left cheek , right cheek kiss . Then took her to sit down at the table eating breakfast .

This set up the ceremony about 15 minutes, is the parent-child interaction , and finally adjusted out . This morning we both do not get angry , you can successfully get out and go to school .

Changing the face of a temper , temperamental child , I always have heart preparation . When I was overwhelmed , they can always seek the Holy Spirit 's wisdom and help , because the child is created by God , He knows best . I often asked God to have His vision is to help children to appreciate the valuable qualities , enjoy her candid and creative . Even God will pour his share of love never fails me, so I can face the children, often joyful , keep love , acceptance , forgiveness ... ...

Contribute money

Dear brothers and sisters , we come together today and talk " money contribution " of such a topic .

" Luke " 21:1-4 Festival , said: " he looked up, saw the rich men casting their gifts into the treasury , ; also saw a poor widow cast in two mites, ; said: ' I tell you , this Poor widow put in more than they all ; because the people are more than their own , out to vote in the donated items in ; but she, poor , all the health of her cast on it. ' "

" Chronicles " section 29:13-14 : "Our God ! now we give you thanks and praise your glorious name ! What am I , my people, what were you able to give as generously . because all things are from your Come from you we have given You . "

Dear brothers and sisters , you have not thought about the dedication of our property that we can love God 's standards? In general , people 's love of property is an undeniable fact that people think that there can be in all aspects of property to satisfy themselves, if not the Lord 's mercy , Christians will be the same as the world fell in love of wealth rather than Love the Lord trap . These people would rather waste a lot of money to buy himself enough physical desires , it would not willing to put their belongings out slightly more to the Lord . Believers who are considerate , if the intention of the Lord , not property of the bundle , then gave the property on their own willing , God is very much appreciate such a person. Main in the ground , he saw a poor widow sacrifice in two mites, the main feeling of satisfaction and praise her . From human view, she is a very small offering , but her main appears to offer rich man than the public offering of all the more . Not only because she offered and the proportion of all she is a very high proportion , more in-depth because the Lord saw her inside a fiery love of the Lord 's heart , Fengyun love for the Lord 's heart in those two A little money on the shown . So people who really love God is not concerned with her all .

Dedication of property

Next we want to talk to the property of the dedication , on the basis of people 's understanding of grace .

God not because of a shortage of people so dedicated to the system , and forced Zhao Renqu presented property . God himself said: "When the beasts of the forest is mine, the cattle on a thousand hills are mine. If I were hungry , I do not have to tell you ; for the world and which is full of , all my . or do I eat the flesh of bulls What ? I not drink the blood of goats do ? you should thank God for the sacrifice , but also to the Most High is also your wish . " (" Psalm " 50:10-14 ) who would like to know the grace of God, which can produce Thanksgiving Heart. God does not like people living in the confused years, He wants us to understand our relationship with Him , He wants us to know if there is no grace , we can not live in his front ; again we really know the grace of God is made to pay At what price ! Even his only begotten son is not spared . If we know the grace , it leads to a grateful heart . To show people what a grateful heart? I said that in addition to other , yet the actual action, it is side by dedication of property that his grateful heart, the side that allow property owners to do their own , and let the Lord be your own master .

First, we see very satisfied under the Old Testament a requirement. In the Old Testament , God through Moses the children of Israel law , the mandatory one-tenth of the proceeds should people go to God. " Leviticus " 27:30-32 Festival : " All the earth , whether on the ground seed is the fruit , one-tenth of the Lord is holy unto the LORD . people to redeem this very What is one thing , we must add one fifth. Any herd or the flock , all passed under the rod , the tenth shall be holy unto the LORD as long . " seriously speaking, the people of Israel before God The offering of the firstfruits , if coupled with , sacrifice and dedication in fact more than one-tenth , but it is quite one must offer the people if it does not offer one-tenth of God 's blessing on the stop . " Malachi , " 3:7 -10 section , said: " says the LORD Almighty : From the days of your fathers you are gone away from mine ordinances , fail to comply . Come back to me, I turned to You . You are asked : ' How are we to do ? ' a man rob God thing does? ye have robbed me of the offering . you say: ' How have we win you offering it? ' which you have when And when satisfied that one-tenth of the offering on . Bring ye all the people they robbed me for things , and a curse to come upon you. says the LORD Almighty : When you want to accept one-tenth of completely into Warehouse , so that my family had food , thus if I will not open you the windows of heaven and pour you out a blessing , there is no room . "

Dear brothers and sisters , from here we can see that the Old Testament of the people are very satisfied if you do not comply with an ordinance , we will certainly lose the blessing of God , then you ever thought about why such a regulation was it God ? We take a look at David dedication prayer , so that you can understand the mind of God . " Chronicles " 29:14 Festival , said: " What am I , my people, what were you able to give as generously ? because all things come from you , we have derived from your dedicated to you. " from the big Wei 's prayer above , we see him acknowledged God honor and glory , ability, wealth , wisdom and ruleth some facts , but also acknowledged the humble people , and God confused the benefits given to various small People . He acknowledged that things have been dedicated by God , and people are enjoying all of God , which is grace . While the grace of salvation that time not yet to emerge, but the grace of life is significantly Feng Feng a full life in God's people . God, look upon your humble man , giving his all to enjoy , this is grace . Leave the people of God to nine points , one point asking people to offer is to let them know to seek the grace of the Lord be gracious .

Speaking of which, maybe some friends will ask , then we now have is that it uses a very satisfied ? Today many churches believe in the tithe , we recognize that this approach may be on the first letter of people , some minor drilling on some benefits , but if the rules of the Church as a basis for the lack of a . In the New Testament church , because God's grace be revealed without reservation , in the dedication of the truth with the principles of the Old Testament is not the same. In the Old Testament , when it is compliance , whether people like it or not ; in the New Testament time , was based on people's gratitude and willing . Therefore, the practice of property contribution , on the first church in the New Testament to understand the principles and facts.

First, the total of all contributions . We are the Lord, even all of us are all about the Lord , we determined that we are all on all the dedication . We can not say we are of God , but not all of us is God , our Lord is , we all are to the Lord to dominate . We also recognize that all of us all is the Lord , so 11 is not a New Testament church dedicated dedicated basis . Today is not one-tenth or two tenths , or very few , but of all the dedication of all .

Secondly, we are stewards of God . " Peter " 4:10 Festival , said: " each according to his faith to serve one another , as good stewards of the manifold grace of God . " borrow this verse, the fact that we have to know our staff in the sub- family of God - - God's steward . From one angle, we are all dedicated to the Lord of all ; from another perspective, God has entrusted to our hands all we care , call us for Him to deal with these properties , so we learn from God in relation to Means to deal with the property in our hands , according to God 's time to offer . A brother to his own life he is very thrifty , but his property was generous in their contributions . His house and are willing to all the other main use, other people are watching him do so felt curious , but he is very humble , I only God's steward . Yes, we all God's steward, we have the time to learn the supply of God's family and not the dedication to 11 as an indicator . To see go to the main contribution is the account for the fact that property is towards the Lord and offer sacrifice , and this is something we have to look for . Although the revenue contribution of the Church or people, but look at these contributions are owned by the Lord come to him to go . Paul accepted the Philippi Church of feed , and he pressed the Lord blessed mind illustrates this fact. " Philippians " 4:18 Festival , said: " ... ... I suffered from a Ba Futi your feed , as the most beautiful fragrance , admit to God , the joy of sacrifice . " actually received Dedication is Paul , and remember the sacrifice was pleasing to the Lord . " Proverbs " 19:17 Festival , said: " pity the poor , is to lend the Lord , his good deeds, the Lord will repay . " Taylor brothers in his very poor when he was only given two meals meal than he And lack of brothers , God, remember what he did , several times giving him his due . Property is owned by devotion to God 's account , this is a blessed spiritual homework, we ask the Lord to us to see , also told us to proper study .

Savings in heaven

Next we want to talk to the sky savings. Dedication of property that is in heaven savings.

Many people do not understand this fact as often to sacrifice the loss of their own , or own all of the reduction , rather indiscriminately for their own spending, are unwilling to sacrifice, such a person is really too ignorant of . " Matthew , " 6:19-20 has this to say : "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal ; as long as the treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust , Nor thieves break in and steal . " If the Lord is very clear to remind us that only pay attention to the ground by a treasure after all, who added there was no fall in . In recent years we have seen numerous fact , an instant, had the rich and powerful people into the streets homeless . Savings only know how to treasure in heaven , not only today 's remember God , God also told him to live in a rich reward in God . Not to do posters for the dedication , devotion toward God is doing , that men on the basis of complete dedication to do willingly . So not offer property for a person to do , or to see and for others . " Matthew , " 6:1-4 Festival said: "You should be careful not to charity line in front of people , seen by them ; If so , you can not get your Father in heaven ... ... when you give alms Do not let your left hand know the right hand did ; That thine alms thing has been done in secret and your Father who sees in secret will reward you .

Dear percent , sister dedicated to God out of our gratitude , but also willingly , it is not that easy to ask for the honor of showing off to people . If the requester 's glory , would not be willing and grateful for . Many people do things , if people can not get back to the glory and the cost of them would rather not do ; and as children of God we must not learn them , we do in secret , is doing to the Father in heaven to see , do not give Look . In addition, on the dedication we have to correct a concept , as used in the reason , many believers are called to donate to the dedication of property , this concept is not correct . Donations help or relief with nature, and dedication that is totally different thing. First, our God is absolutely rich, do not need human assistance ; Second, we devote the main motivation is because of love , but also because of Thanksgiving , not because there is a shortage of God we went to help Him . Therefore, we do not think God wants our light stick . To know that God is willing to accept them is also a grace of our devotion , although the Chinese " the Bible " this matter better translated as a place to donate items or to donate, but we have a correct idea, is dedicated not to donate .

Another point we need to understand is that the discretion of the offer with the original mind . Out willing to sacrifice , not by constraint, each with the original mind to the discretion of the not so difficult , not reluctantly , because we are really happy people are loved by God . Presented to the Lord should not become our burden , in the New Testament believers neither restrictions tithe , then learn how to dedicate it ? God wants man to do the dedication is from the inside out , God is not regulation was a number, but God is asking each Anzhuo everyone can the offer , following the original mind the discretion of the offer , love the Lord more , offer the More than a few naturally , the same as the poor widow ; and less love for the Lord , offer less naturally . After all, God tells us a result : that God loved people willing to sacrifice .

Changes in diet can make you have a beautiful baby

Dear friends who have children should pay attention to these oh ! ! !

The child during pregnancy can become a beautiful way .
Lying in points to note .
80,90 After the small parent will learn : 10 -year-old child can not eat before ~
For the future we must look ah baby !
In fact, a woman should see more of friends ~ !

Changes in diet can make you have a beautiful baby .
> improve the blackish color
Some parents, partial color black, pregnant women can eat plenty of foods rich in vitamin C such as tomatoes, grapes , oranges, cauliflower , melon , onion , garlic , apples, Rosa roxburghii , fresh dates and other vegetables and fruits, with a particular Apples the best.
> goodbye to rough skin , with good vision
Pregnant women can eat more foods rich in vitamin A , such as animal liver, egg yolk , milk, cod liver oil , carrots , apples, tomatoes and green vegetables and dried fruit , etc. . Particularly in the liver vitamin A was the most carrots can also promote the increase of hemoglobin , thereby enhancing the concentration of the blood , is commonly used blood nourishing our share and civil .
> foster shiny oily UFA
If the parents of white hair early , or slightly yellow , fall off , so pregnant women can eat more foods containing vitamin B family , such as lean meat , fish, animal liver , milk , bread, beans , eggs, seaweed , walnut , sesame , corn And green vegetables, these foods can improve a child 's hair , not only thick , black , and shiny gloss .
> let the children grow taller tall
If the parents of a head is not high , should eat foods rich in vitamin D , such as shrimp , egg yolk , animal liver and vegetables .
> benefit the brain, Bunao , brain
Pregnant women during pregnancy eat more iodine -rich foods such as kelp and other marine products , to supplement the needs of the fetus to iodine , to promote the synthesis of fetal thyroid is conducive to a good fetal brain development .

Although the solo , still fly

According to recent U.S. Census report shows that one-third of households are single parent families. Estimated that at least 20 million children growing up in single parent families , of which 84 % of his mother . Experts estimate that children are born , of which 60 % will be experienced by a single parent support life.

Not only the United States but around the world, including Taiwan and mainland China , the percentage of single-parent families soared .

A single reason , mainly widowed , divorced , unmarried mothers and single adoptive child . Now even " pseudo- single "phenomenon , or " absence of a spouse "(spouse absent). May be due to long working outside party , or hospitalization , imprisonment and other reasons, lead to living together from more than one party and therefore need to bear alone the burden of life and child rearing responsibilities .

In view of increasing single-parent families , single parent caring ministry of the more important . Including this Council, many of the institutions, and many Chinese churches, are to promote parent caring ministry , and hope to work together to help struggling single parents , to learn from the setbacks of life lessons , the courage to stand up again to meet A bright future !

Own explanation 1: Thanksgiving Effort
A grateful look at all the failure and frustration mind , you will find that life is very exciting ! Although yesterday was Shuaiguo wrestle , but without losing the direction of life today . Fengmei freshman year, summer activity in the understanding of a President, two love at first sight . After he went to America to study , no time to get along with each other , until the Fengmei college , before he returned from the United States to participate in the graduation ceremony , and marriage .
Married for one year , Fengmei to the United States meet with the teacher on the street to participate in church activities , Mr. . They soon opened a travel agency . Travel agency business , Mr. earn too much money , they opened the restaurant. Not selected on the location, within a year lost a million dollars .

At that time, life as if into an impasse , the two quarrel often because of economic problems . Once , sir anger , the broken windows . Day, Fengmei sitting alone in the broken car , Xinrusihui . But God silenced ringing in ears : "I am making no change , even God . " God would immediately become a sea of driftwood , she was suddenly awakened .

She worked hard day and night . The business of travel agents climbed the peak from the bottom , ten years later , pay off the debt . Thought could be a little rest , mended that larger waves hit ─ ─ dream of happy marriage broken . Mr. Personality weak , do not know how to say no ; promised someone else to do , even if illegal , false , fine , will do . Affair is the same thing . When the rumors , Feng-mei asked him, he used a lie to cover another lie , refuse to admit their mistakes.

To avoid her again , her husband dragged into the financial abyss , mother to support her ... ... out of the marriage, divorce , Fengmei feel like a worn out clothes, worthless , and often feel ashamed , unwilling to see the people, just bailing No one knew where to go cry . Her day in grief , anger , resentment , guilt, self-pity , loss, depression , the plight of struggling .

A , Feng-mei attend church. Day pastor sermon to comfort her : "God is faithful , He does not forsake you. " Her response: "I though humble , You still love me ! I did not take prayer , You still look after me . He did not know in my heart Pain , You do know ! " instant heart bitterness , shame, a curse , all gone , only the incomparable love of mind . Since then, she looked up , play their part , ground work , not sell it.

Past the old feel like carrying a broken bag , a continuously put into a lot of money , but keep out the other end of drain . After the divorce, Fengmei effort out to make money , her mother at home looking after children , two concerted efforts to finance significant improvement soon make up the loophole . Then they found the child with an autistic tendency ; their parents love and marriage to the child heart filled with anger, once again seen the young rebellious stage, many problems are exposed . Fengmei to leave the tour , take her son through this period of youth accompany the storm . God was saying to her : "My child is your job ! " strengthened her resolve.

The original communication with her children , only one answer "No". Her grief, knees and begged God heal their parent-child relationship to each other as friends . At first , the child still refused to believe that the past always work the first place , used to say " Wait a minute be with you , " the mother would quit working while in high school four years are accompanied by side . Save his son , Feng Mei Qingxing myself on the decision . Only directed at her son from a previous said : "No", to changed to "Maybe", to tell a complete if the final can not affect the show to her voice , mother-child relations have greatly improved.

In retrospect , Fengmei full of gratitude and said: "Although I've been through a tough road , but I find marriage still gives me a great blessing ; if there is no ex-husband, I can not know God , the son would not be such a sweetie . our marriage though broken , but creating a character today, I am more mature . this life , would it not be more exciting ? ! "