Child's needs

We often educated their children , parents and children, and children to speak to communicate are at a loss . Not just in your child is just born you will feel at a loss , sometimes kids go to school, into adolescence , parents still feel helpless. The parents , if we know that the children need, it easier to handle.

Children need What do ? It is said that every child needs to be accepted, be praise and enjoy. They need to learn to trust their parents will not cheat them, or do not honor their commitments , they need consistent, and very fair treatment. They need to feel that their fears , desires , feelings, sense of impulse or frustration , helplessness, can the parents understand. They actually need to know a safe range , what is to allow them to do ? What is prohibited not let them do it? They need to know a home is a safe place , a refuge the home inside without fear. When their performance is good, they need warm praise. They make mistakes , you need a firm correction. They need to know their parents than they are stronger , parents to protect them through of foreign the storm and the danger . Can meet their temper and vexatious, they need to feel parents like their , are willing to take the time to listen to them. They need parents know their more and more want to independence the kind of feelings and needs .

Friends, you feel your child in these areas needs is not got to meet it? Of course not at once all can be done , but it can slowly be done . Because their parents are learning , there is a learning phase. But if we can understand their children have these needs , we are willing to understand the children, and willing with them to communicate , then we can and child have better and better relationship. All this we can look up , relying on the Lord give us wisdom , give us love, let us know Zenmeyangzuo , know how to treat our children. in the Proverbs the book Chapter 3 5-6 section of , said: " with all your heart Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding , in all your deeds , and have found him, he will direct your paths . "In raising my child, The things this way too.