Although the solo , still fly

According to recent U.S. Census report shows that one-third of households are single parent families. Estimated that at least 20 million children growing up in single parent families , of which 84 % of his mother . Experts estimate that children are born , of which 60 % will be experienced by a single parent support life.

Not only the United States but around the world, including Taiwan and mainland China , the percentage of single-parent families soared .

A single reason , mainly widowed , divorced , unmarried mothers and single adoptive child . Now even " pseudo- single "phenomenon , or " absence of a spouse "(spouse absent). May be due to long working outside party , or hospitalization , imprisonment and other reasons, lead to living together from more than one party and therefore need to bear alone the burden of life and child rearing responsibilities .

In view of increasing single-parent families , single parent caring ministry of the more important . Including this Council, many of the institutions, and many Chinese churches, are to promote parent caring ministry , and hope to work together to help struggling single parents , to learn from the setbacks of life lessons , the courage to stand up again to meet A bright future !

Own explanation 1: Thanksgiving Effort
A grateful look at all the failure and frustration mind , you will find that life is very exciting ! Although yesterday was Shuaiguo wrestle , but without losing the direction of life today . Fengmei freshman year, summer activity in the understanding of a President, two love at first sight . After he went to America to study , no time to get along with each other , until the Fengmei college , before he returned from the United States to participate in the graduation ceremony , and marriage .
Married for one year , Fengmei to the United States meet with the teacher on the street to participate in church activities , Mr. . They soon opened a travel agency . Travel agency business , Mr. earn too much money , they opened the restaurant. Not selected on the location, within a year lost a million dollars .

At that time, life as if into an impasse , the two quarrel often because of economic problems . Once , sir anger , the broken windows . Day, Fengmei sitting alone in the broken car , Xinrusihui . But God silenced ringing in ears : "I am making no change , even God . " God would immediately become a sea of driftwood , she was suddenly awakened .

She worked hard day and night . The business of travel agents climbed the peak from the bottom , ten years later , pay off the debt . Thought could be a little rest , mended that larger waves hit ─ ─ dream of happy marriage broken . Mr. Personality weak , do not know how to say no ; promised someone else to do , even if illegal , false , fine , will do . Affair is the same thing . When the rumors , Feng-mei asked him, he used a lie to cover another lie , refuse to admit their mistakes.

To avoid her again , her husband dragged into the financial abyss , mother to support her ... ... out of the marriage, divorce , Fengmei feel like a worn out clothes, worthless , and often feel ashamed , unwilling to see the people, just bailing No one knew where to go cry . Her day in grief , anger , resentment , guilt, self-pity , loss, depression , the plight of struggling .

A , Feng-mei attend church. Day pastor sermon to comfort her : "God is faithful , He does not forsake you. " Her response: "I though humble , You still love me ! I did not take prayer , You still look after me . He did not know in my heart Pain , You do know ! " instant heart bitterness , shame, a curse , all gone , only the incomparable love of mind . Since then, she looked up , play their part , ground work , not sell it.

Past the old feel like carrying a broken bag , a continuously put into a lot of money , but keep out the other end of drain . After the divorce, Fengmei effort out to make money , her mother at home looking after children , two concerted efforts to finance significant improvement soon make up the loophole . Then they found the child with an autistic tendency ; their parents love and marriage to the child heart filled with anger, once again seen the young rebellious stage, many problems are exposed . Fengmei to leave the tour , take her son through this period of youth accompany the storm . God was saying to her : "My child is your job ! " strengthened her resolve.

The original communication with her children , only one answer "No". Her grief, knees and begged God heal their parent-child relationship to each other as friends . At first , the child still refused to believe that the past always work the first place , used to say " Wait a minute be with you , " the mother would quit working while in high school four years are accompanied by side . Save his son , Feng Mei Qingxing myself on the decision . Only directed at her son from a previous said : "No", to changed to "Maybe", to tell a complete if the final can not affect the show to her voice , mother-child relations have greatly improved.

In retrospect , Fengmei full of gratitude and said: "Although I've been through a tough road , but I find marriage still gives me a great blessing ; if there is no ex-husband, I can not know God , the son would not be such a sweetie . our marriage though broken , but creating a character today, I am more mature . this life , would it not be more exciting ? ! "